分享巴關談到親子關係的一段話 ~ Bholi 翻譯 ^___^
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Q. Bhagavan, what is the most important factor in keeping a good
relationship with one's parents?
Bhagavan:
The basic thing you must know is that whatever they, as parents,have done to you, whatever you do not approve of, was not that they didwillfully; they were made to do those things because they werebeing controlled by several factors. You must realize that you are nothing
but robots.You are a robot and your parent is a robot. If you can see that, you wouldn't blame them at all. The way they behave with you woulddepend on what happened while they were in their mother's womb,their fundamental childhood decisions, past life vasanas, later day conditioning etc.If you realize this, then would come acceptance, then would comelove and the relationship falls into order. Once the relationship falls into order, everything else falls into order.
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巴關，是什麼最重要的因素讓我們和父母保持良好的關係呢?
巴關回答 : 最基本你要知道的是，不管你的父母曾如何對待你而你是如何的不認同， 父母對待你的方式並非出於他們的意願。 他們被設計去做那些事背後有著很多的因素， 你必須了解你什麼都不是，只是個被設計去做這一切的機器，而你的父母也是。 如果你可以看見這一點，你將不再責備你的父母。 他們對待你的方式，緣於他們在嬰兒子宮期時生命最初始被對待的方式， 以及過去的前世記憶和往後人生的環境影響等等因素。 如果你可以了解這點，親子關係中發生的一切將變得可以被接受， 然後愛將再次流動並找到原有的序位。 當與父母的關係找到了序位，所有的關係也將因此找到序位。
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